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I'm Sick...

...and I must be well by Monday because we have a very busy week ahead and I have no time for this.
The Common Cold by Ogden Nash

Go hang yourself, you old M.D.!
You shall not sneer at me.
Pick up your hat and stethoscope,
Go wash your mouth with laundry soap;
I contemplate a joy exquisite
I'm not paying you for your visit.
I did not call you to be told
My malady is a common cold.

By pounding brow and swollen lip;
By fever's hot and scaly grip;
By those two red redundant eyes
That weep like woeful April skies;
By racking snuffle, snort, and sniff;
By handkerchief after handkerchief;
This cold you wave away as naught
Is the damnedest cold man ever caught!

Give ear, you scientific fossil!
Here is the genuine Cold Colossal;
The Cold of which researchers dream,
The Perfect Cold, the Cold Supreme.
This honored system humbly holds
The Super-cold to end all colds;
The Cold Crusading for Democracy;
The Führer of the Streptococcracy.

Bacilli swarm within my portals
Such as were ne'er conceived by mortals,
But bred by scientists wise and hoary
In some Olympic laboratory;
Bacteria as large as mice,
With feet of fire and heads of ice
Who never interrupt for slumber
Their stamping elephantine rumba.

A common cold, gadzooks, forsooth!
Ah, yes. And Lincoln was jostled by Booth;
Don Juan was a budding gallant,
And Shakespeare's plays show signs of talent;
The Arctic winter is fairly coolish,
And your diagnosis is fairly foolish.
Oh what a derision history holds
For the man who belittled the Cold of Colds!

Friday Confessional #1



I confess...

I read the WHOLE Sarah Palin book Going Rogue and I still don't like her. All I can say is Remember, people will judge you by your actions, not your intentions. You may have a heart of gold -- but so does a hard-boiled egg.

I am wildly addicted to the Farscape series...I'm currently watching season 3 on Netflix.

 I am longing for Summer vacation and it is still month and months away.

STOP TRYING TO BE PERFECT...

STOP TRYING TO BE PERFECT AND START BEING REMARKABLE
From The Big Moo by Seth Godin

Remarkable is being unafraid to stand out.
Remarkable is having a fire in your belly and an idea that won’t quit.
Remarkable is telling the truth, always…even about yourself.
Remarkable is failing often and then trying again.
Remarkable is more doing and less planning. More testing out and less waiting, More dreaming and less sleeping.
Remarkable is when you stand for something and make it happen and change the world along the way. Stand for something or stand for nothing.
Remarkable is following your heart when everyone else is going the other way.
Remarkable is feeling the fear and doing it anyway. You can’t shirk your way to greatness.
Remarkable is not waiting for the world to change, but starting the change with yourself.
Remarkable is thinking and being in the present “Giving up the illusion that you can predict the future is a very liberating moment. “All you can do is give yourself the capacity to respond…the creation of that capacity is the purpose of strategy” Lord John Browne
Remarkable is getting up and getting out
Remarkable is being yourself. No carbon copies allowed…stop being ordinary.
Remarkable is having fun and enjoying the journey.
Remarkable is knowing there are no truly original ideas…just new ways to use them. Look for inspiration everywhere.
Remarkable is what happen when you stop trying to be perfect and just be REMARKABLE you!

Some of us are hopeless...

....romantics. 

I just saw a preview for this movie and fell in love with it.

 
Check out the trailers and things here. 

FYI: It has a sad ending-expect tears

Bright Star
Bright star, would I were steadfast as thou art —
Not in lone splendour hung aloft the night
And watching, with eternal lids apart,
Like Nature's patient, sleepless Eremite,
The moving waters at their priestlike task
Of pure ablution round earth's human shores,
Or gazing on the new soft-fallen mask
Of snow upon the mountains and the moors —
No — yet still stedfast, still unchangeable,
Pillow'd upon my fair love's ripening breast,
To feel for ever its soft fall and swell,
Awake for ever in a sweet unrest,
Still, still to hear her tender-taken breath,
And so live ever — or else swoon to death.
~John Keets

Doughnuts are Evil!

 

I am officially a runner. I am running roughly 20 miles a week. I go out with my running partner every weekday morning at 5 am (weather permitting).

I learned about this fun online community for runners (well any sort of exercise really) from my friend Christie called Daily Mile. It is a fun way to record your miles, times, etc and it keeps track of calories burned and pace. One feature actually tells you how many dougnuts you've burned.



Well people I am telling you PLEASE ban doughnuts. I have run 50 miles and only burned off 30 doughnuts. You would have to RUN 1.5 miles just to burn one doughnut off. Is it worth it? Is one doughnut worth 10-15 minutes of your blood, sweat, and tears. So I say, " Say NO to the doughnut...their evil!"

Truth be told I have never been a huge doughnut fan. Too sweet really, like sugar covered sugar. My husband is though-he thinks it is the breakfast of champions. YUCK!  So my doughnut ban is a bit biased...but still! The facts are still there-350 calories...over 100 from fat. Just say no to the doughnut!

Parenting









I've been thinking on Charlotte's writings on the nature of children. I am trying to adjust my parenting and our home atmosphere to more accurately fit into her thoughts on the ideal home. I have tried to pin point some specific things I can start doing now.

There are two concrete things I have done so far. First I have been chatting with my kids about their behavior, how it is affecting others and how it affects them. We especially talk a great deal about emotions and also inconveniencing others. I do not nag them or lecture them. I just simple have a short casual conversation with them. This ends without hurt feelings or anger on both our parts. The second change has been inspiring them. I am finding thoughts, scriptures and quotes to inspire them to change. For example, after they failed to do some chores required of them I read this quote to them before bed. "Hard work spotlights the character of people: some turn up their sleeves, some turn up their noses, and some don’t turn up at all." ~Sam Ewing. I tried not to lecture or explain, I did help them define the word character. We talked about how character can be good and bad and neither. Kaleb(6) asked me if I could read that quote to them every night before bed. I am making these small changes in my own personal habits to help ensure a more loving atmosphere and happier home life all around.

You ARE Qualified to Teach Your Child







My greatest fascination with Charlotte Mason writings is her ability to ooze truths throughout her books. You always come away feeling either inspired by some new truth or having an old truth reaffirmed by her thoughts.

I have always felt that education naturally falls into the stewardship of parents. From their earliest infancy we are charged with teaching our children, how to eat, sleep, talk, interact and love. But for some reason society at large has continued to take that stewardship away from the parents earlier and earlier. Experts tell us what we DO NOT know about our children. They tell us what is really best for them, and how when and what they should be taught. How eager some of us are to get them to a school-able age and then to send them off to be taught by others thinking nothing of what is being taught or why- so long as we do not have charge of it.

When in reality the responsibility of overseeing that education is soley the responsibility of the parent. There are many ways to facilitate that education...but the ultimate responsibility lies with the parent.

It is great to see  mothers taking back their stewardship by joining the ranks of homeschooling and many many more realizing that schools are not ultimately responsible to educate their children and taking the necessary steps at home to supplement and support their child's education in proactive ways. 

"It is a great thing to be a parent: there is no  promotion, no dignity, to compare with it. … But then entrusted with  such a charge, they are not free to say, “I may do as I will with mine  own.” The children are, in truth, to be regarded less as personal  property than as public trusts, put into the hands of parents that they  may make the very most of them for the good of society. And this  responsibility is not equally divided between the parents: it is upon  the mothers of the present that the future of the world depends, in even  a greater degree than upon the fathers, because it is the mothers who  have the sole direction of the children’s early, most impressible years.  That is why we hear so frequently of great men who have had good  mothers - that is, mothers who brought up their children themselves, and  did not make over the gravest duty to indifferent persons.“The mother is qualified,” says Pestalozzi, “and qualified by the  Creator Himself, to become the principal agent in the development of her  child; … and what is demanded of her is - a thinking love … God has  given to thy child all the faculties of our nature, but the grand point  remains undecided - how shall this heart, this head, these hands, be  employed? A question the answer to which involves the futurity of  happiness or misery to a life so dear to thee. Maternal love is the  first agent in education.”We are waking up to our duties, and in proportion as mothers become  more highly educated and efficient, they will doubtless feel the more  strongly that the education of their children … is an undertaking hardly  to be entrusted to any hands but their own. And they will take it up as  their profession - that is, with the diligence, regularity, and  punctuality which men bestow upon their professional labors.That the mother may know what she is about, may come thoroughly  furnished to her work, she should have something more than a hearsay  acquaintance with the theory of education, and with those conditions of  the child’s nature upon which such theory rests." 
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