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My Church Talk on the Gifts of the Ressurection


The GIFTS of the Resurrection

INTRO:
Hello my name is April Mitchell, I’m married to Levi Mitchell who is the youngest son of long time ward members Barry and Elinda Mitchell.  We have four boys ranging in ages from 13-6. We have been boomerang children off and on through out our 12 years of marriage, so we’ve been in this ward a few times, a year here and a few months there.  I’m a convert, and this was the first ward I ever attended. I would tag along with Levi’s parents to find out what Mormons were all about. So Its always refreshing to come back to the Meridian 1st ward. To see old friendly faces, of course they are more friendly than old.
Since I am a convert, I was not raised in this Church. I was raised up in various Evangelical churches. I am the oldest of 4 children to a single mother. We lived with my Grandmother on and off throughout my childhood. She is an extremely passionate and faith filled person. When I was very young my Grandmother had just become a newly ‘born again’ Christian she shared her new found faith with our family. Our church was an excitable bunch. We played tambourines to worship music and the pastor prayed over those in his congregation with gusto and drama. In this atmosphere of constant celebration, I used to crawl into bed with my Grandmother and beg her in my small voice “ Can you  read me the story of when Jesus Died on the Cross?”  I remember a lot of emphasize being placed on the part about how he died on the cross for me, an extreme sacrifice, but this was not my favorite part of the story. The Trial, Atonement, and Crucifixion of Christ, to me as a child, were the sad stories that lead to the Happy Ever After. My favorite part of the story was the ending the Resurrection of Christ.
Jesus Christ, the Son of God, came to earth and preached His gospel of love. He  was betrayed by one of His closest associates. He was subjected to the cruelty of an unjust trial and sentenced to death. He then died on a cross between two thieves on Calvary’s hill. His lifeless body was buried in a borrowed tomb, the entrance sealed by a great stone and Roman soldiers placed to guard it. Faithful women came that first Easter morning to dress the body of their beloved Master. They were surprised and grieved to be greeted by an empty tomb. When angels spoke these wondrous words to them:
 “Why seek ye the living among the dead? He is not here, but is risen” (Luke 24:5–6).
The Resurrection of Christ and our own eventual Resurrection are gifts given to us by a loving Heavenly Father. There are blessings without end within the Gift of the Resurrection.  I will attempt to explain a few of them. 

Christ our Savior Lives
One of the first gifts of the Resurrection is the knowledge that Christ our Savior lives and is not lost. We have many accounts in the scriptures of those who have testified to seeing, hearing and touching the Resurrected Christ.
The Resurrected Savior appeared to the faithful Nephites.
“And … behold, they saw a Man descending out of heaven; and he was clothed in a white robe; and he came down and stood in the midst of them; and the eyes of the whole multitude were turned upon him, and they durst not open their mouths, even one to another, and wist not what it meant, for they thought it was an angel that had appeared unto them.
“And it came to pass that he stretched forth his hand and spake unto the people, saying: “Behold, I am Jesus Christ, whom the prophets testified shall come into the world”
And behold, I am the light and the life of the world; and I have drunk out of that bitter cup which the Father hath given me, and have glorified the Father in taking upon me the sins of the world, in the which I have suffered the will of the Father in all things from the beginning.
And it came to pass that when Jesus had spoken these words the whole multitude fell to the earth; for they remembered that it had been prophesied among them that Christ should show himself unto them after his ascension into heaven.
And it came to pass that the Lord spake unto them saying:
Arise and come forth unto me, that ye may thrust your hands into my side, and also that ye may feel the prints of the nails in my hands and in my feet, that ye may know that I am the God of Israel, and the God of the whole earth, and have been slain for the sins of the world.
And it came to pass that the multitude went forth, and thrust their hands into his side, and did feel the prints of the nails in his hands and in his feet; and this they did do, going forth one by one until they had all gone forth, and did see with their eyes and did feel with their hands, and did know of a surety and did bear record, that it was he, of whom it was written by the prophets, that should come.
And when they had all gone forth and had witnessed for themselves, they did cry out with one accord, saying:
Hosanna! Blessed be the name of the Most High God! And they did fall down at the feet of Jesus, and did worship him.” (3 Ne. 11-8-17)
Christ dies but he is not gone, he was resurrected and lives on.

Lesson in faith
Along with the JOYOUS gift of knowing our Saviour lives on after death, is a GIFT OF INCREASED FAITH by truly believing in the resurrection of Christ and gaining a testimony of its truth and reality.
 Even the disciples just shortly after his death and burial, began to lose faith and be confused. They wondered at what had happened to their Lord, why his body was gone. Their first response was to assume someone had stolen his body.  You will recall that the disciples, who walked and talked with Christ on the road to Emmaus, did not recognize him at first. His true self was veiled from them. They were talking and worrying about what had become of their Lords body. Christ still unrevealed to them brought them to mind of all the scriptures concerning his resurrection. Later, “their eyes were opened, and they knew him,” when they reflected, “Did not our heart burn within us, while he talked with us by the way, and while he opened to us the scriptures?” (Luke 24:31–32.)You will also recall that Jesus said to Thomas, “Be not faithless, but believing. …
The world is full of doubt and cynicism about Jesus, about who he was and the reality of His resurrection. We observe with sorrow those who deny Christ, denying His virgin birth, his ministry, and resurrection. What a great victory Satan would win if he could just convince men there is no Christ, that his death was his end! Satan has waged that war from the beginning. Matthew recorded that the chief priests gave “large money” to the soldiers guarding Jesus’ tomb, to have them spread the story that “his disciples came by night, and stole him away while we slept” (Matt. 28:12–13). It is sad to report that the soldiers “took the money, and did as they were taught” (Matt. 28:15).  If Satam could just convince us that Christ was not who he said he was and that he was not truly resurrected, wouldn’t our faith be truly dissolved.
Without true belief in the Resurrection of Christ, our faith is meaningless. The Apostle Paul said, “If Christ be not risen, then is our preaching vain, and [our] faith is also vain.” ( 1 Corinthians 15:14.)
The Resurrection of Christ provides an opportunity for us to test our faith. Do we truly believe? Do we accept his Atonement? Believe he was truly Resurrected?
Christ said to Thomas, “Because thou hast seen me, thou hast believed: blessed are they that have not seen, and yet have believed” (John 20:27, 29).

Gift to all:
Let every man and woman count himself immortal.  Let him catch the revelation of Jesus in his resurrection.  Let him say not merely, "Christ is risen," but "I shall rise."  ~Phillips Brooks
Jesus was the first to be resurrected (2 Nephi 2:8), and because of his Resurrection, all people will be resurrected (2 Nephi 9:22; Alma 11:42, 44). All mankind will rise from the dead. Resurrection is a gift to all.
 Amulek declared: “The spirit and the body shall be reunited again in its perfect form; both limb and joint shall be restored to its proper frame. … Now, this restoration shall come to all, both old and young, both bond and free, both male and female, both the wicked and the righteous” (Alma 11:43–44; emphasis added).
President Ezra Taft Benson has told us that the literal resurrection of every soul who has lived and died on earth is a certainty, and surely one should make careful preparation for this event. A glorious resurrection should be the goal of every man and woman, for resurrection will be a reality. Nothing is more absolutely universal than the resurrection. Every living being will be resurrected. “As in Adam all die, even so in Christ shall all be made alive.” (1 Cor. 15:22.) (Apr. 1992The Meaning of EasterBy President Ezra Taft Benson)

We will recieve perfected bodies :
The restoring of our perfected bodies to our spirits is central to the gift of the Resurrection.
In the book of Alma it tells us that when we are resurrected, our spirits are reunited with our perfected bodies, never to be separated again (Alma 11:43, 45). Resurrection is essentially—the reuniting of the spirit and body in its perfect form.
The soul shall be restored to the body, and the body to the soul; yea, and every limb and joint shall be restored to its body; yea, even a hair of the head shall not be lost; but all things shall be restored to their proper and perfect frame. (Alma 40:23-26)
President Joseph F. Smith said “that those from whom we have to part here, we will meet again and see as they are. We will meet the same identical being that we associated with here in the flesh.” (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph F. Smith (1998), 91.)
President Spencer W. Kimball amplified this when he said, “I am sure that if we can imagine ourselves at our very best, physically, mentally, spiritually, that is the way we will come back.” (The Teachings of Spencer W. Kimball, ed. Edward L. Kimball (1982), 45.)
 
Immortality
The Gift of the Resurrection assures us that we will become immortal beings. The Saviors own Resurrections illustrates this promise of Immortality. Death is not the end. The Savior has promised us that  “Because I live, ye shall live also.” (John 14:19.) When we die, it is not our end, we can rest assured in Gods promise of immortality.
In the book of Mormon the 179 year old prophet Enos shares with us his testimony of assured immortality. “And I soon go to the place of my rest, which is with my Redeemer; for I know that in him I shall rest. And I rejoice in the day when my mortal shall put on immortality, and shall stand before him; then shall I see his face with pleasure, and he will say unto me: Come unto me, ye blessed, there is a place prepared for you in the mansions of my Father. Amen.” (Enos 1:27)

Knowledge:
When we are resurrected the knowledge and intelligence we gained here on earth “will rise with us in the resurrection” (D&C 130:18–19).
In a talk given at BYU in 1992 President Hinkley shared, “What a miracle is the human mind. Think of its power to assimilate knowledge, to analyze and synthesize. What a remarkable thing is learning, the process whereby the accumulated knowledge of the centuries has been summarized and filtered so that in a brief period we can learn what was first learned only through long exercises of research and trial and error.
Education is the great conversion process under which abstract knowledge becomes useful and productive activity. It is something that need never stop. No matter how old we grow, we can acquire knowledge and use it. We can gather wisdom and profit from it. We can be entertained through the miracle of reading and exposure to the arts and add to the blessing and fulfillment of living. The older I grow, the more I enjoy the words of thoughtful writers, ancient and modern, and the savoring of that which they have written.
Under a divinely given mandate, we are to “seek learning, even by study and also by faith” (D&C 88:118). And “whatever principle of intelligence we attain unto in this life, it will rise with us in the resurrection(D&C 130:18).  (I Belive, Ensign August 1992, Gordon B Hinkley)
This is a great blessing to us from our Heavenly Father, all the knowledge we have learned here on earth will become part of our eternal and immortal selves.

Promise of Spiritual Perfection:
Our Resurrection also provides us with the gift and promise of true spiritual perfection. C. S. Lewis, who had unusual insight into “things as they really are” (Jacob 4:13), had this to say about what we can do once we get the perspective of immortality clearly in our minds:“The command be ye perfect is not idealistic gas. Nor is it a command to do the impossible. Christ is going to make us into creatures that can obey that command. He said (in the Bible) that we were “gods” and He is going to make good His words. If we let Him—for we can prevent Him, if we choose—He will make the feeblest and filthiest of us into a god or goddess, a dazzling, radiant, immortal creature, pulsating all through with such energy and joy and wisdom and love as we cannot now imagine, a bright stainless mirror which reflects back to God perfectly (though, of course, on a smaller scale) His own boundless power and delight and goodness. The process will be long and in parts very painful; but that is what we are in for. Nothing less. He meant what He said” (Mere Christianity, New York City: Macmillan Paperbacks, 1960, page 160).  
 In a presentation to the Quorum of the Seventy, Elder Alexander B. Morrision shared this thought- “The command “be ye … perfect” (Matt. 5:48) cannot be executed overnight, or even by the end of mortality. It takes much, much longer to overcome all our weaknesses and qualify ourselves for godhood. Christ’s resurrection, which assured our immortality, provides the time necessary for us to at least seriously attempt to pursue the goal of perfection. (By Elder Alexander B. Morrison An abridged version of a presentation to the Quorums of the Seventy, 17 March 1994.)
 
Understanding the resurrection helps us understand our eternal nature:
The following verses of poetry are from a poem by Emily Bronte, titled No Coward Soul is Mine. Her sister, Charlotte Bronte believed they were the last lines her sister ever wrote.
There is not room for Death,
Nor atom that his might could render void:
Thou - Thou art Being and Breath,
And what Thou art may never be destroyed. 

        When we understand the Resurrection we begin to understand our own true eternal nature.  The understandings and realization of our eternal nature is a special Gift from our Heavenly Father. The promise of life beyond the grave gives us a different perspective of ourselves and those around us. We learn we are immortal creatures, we realize that life, does not end with the grave, and does not begin with the cradle. We lived before we came to this earth. We will live on after we leave this earth. We are eternal creatures, who if we are true and faithful, may return to celestial halls and live again with the mighty God who is the Father of our spirits. And Our Savior, whose resurrection makes it all possible, will be there to wrap us “in the arms of [His] love” (D&C 6:20).

Resurrection eases the pain of losing loved ones:
The promise of the Resurrection is a great gift, which can comfort us when we lose a loved one.
President David O McKay taught us that as Christ lived after death so shall all men, each taking his place in the next world for which he has best fitted himself. The message of the resurrection, therefore, is the most comforting, the most glorious ever given to man, for when death takes a loved one from us, our sorrowing hearts are assuaged by the hope and the divine assurance expressed in the words:“He is not here: he is risen.” [See Matthew 28:6.] Because our Redeemer lives so shall we. I bear you witness that He does live. I know it, as I hope you know that divine truth. " (Chapter 7: The Significance of the Resurrection," Teachings of Presidents of the Church: David O. McKay, (2003) 11. In Conference Report, Apr. 1944, 125.)
“Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?” (1 Corinthians 15:54–55.) 

Resurrection is an ordinance:  
Resurrection is one more ordinance that we need to receive to obtain celestial glory. The ordinance of resurrection will be administered after we have died. In an 1872 address President Brigham Young said “We are in possession of all the ordinances that can be administered in the flesh for salvation, and exaltation, but there are other ordinances and administrations that must be administered beyond this world, one being the ordinance and the keys of the Resurrection. They will be given to those who have passed off this stage of action and have received their bodies again, as many have already done and many more will. They will be ordained, by those who hold the keys of the resurrection, to go forth and resurrect the Saints. This is one of the ordinances we cannot receive here, and there are many more. We will operate here, in all the ordinances of the house of God which pertain to this side the veil, and those who pass beyond and secure to themselves a resurrection pertaining to the lives will go on and receive more and more, more and more, and will receive one after another until they are crowned Gods, even the sons of God.  (President Brigham Young address he gave on August 24, 1872 in Farmington, Utah, and reported by David W. Evans.)

Fullness of Joy:
After our Resurrection when our Spirit and element become inseparably connected we will receive a fullness of joy. (D&C 93:33)
Those spirits who have died look upon the separation from the body as bondage; (D&C 138:12–17, 50 When we are resurrected it will be a joyous time of celebration because our spirits will be reunited with our perfected bodies. We will be whole and complete. We will be able to experience a great fullness of joy.

Summary 
We can know our Savior lives, by learning of the Resurrection of Christ through the scriptures and testimonies of those that have seen him. Our faith is increased when we believe in Christ’s resurrection, even though we have not seen or touched him. Resurrection is a gift and promise to all. Through our own resurrection we will be reunited with our perfected bodies and receive immortality. We are promised that all our knowledge gained on earth will rise with us in the resurrection.  After our resurrection true spiritual perfection is made possible for us; we will truly be able to obey the commandment “be… ye perfect” (Matt 5:28). When we understand the Resurrection we will understand our own eternal natures and the eternal nature of those around us. The joyful promise of resurrection helps to ease the pain of losing loved ones, as we rest assured we will see them again. After our glorious Resurrection day we will truly experience a great fullness of joy and our own Happy Ever After.

CLOSING
I leave you with these hopeful words from a hymn by Eliza R Snow.
Though deepening trials throng your way, Press on, press on ye Saints of God! Ere long the resurrection day Will spread its life and truth abroad, Though outward ills await us here, The time, a longest, is not long.  Ere Jesus Christ will reappear, Surrounded by a glorious throng, Lift up your hearts in praise to God, Let your rejoicing never cease. Though tribulations rage abroad, Christ says,“ In me ye shall have peace.” (Through Deeping Trials Hymn #122)
AMEN

Talk: The Family Guidebook-Families

Talk written and given for church...

Family Guidebook: Building An Eternal Family


By April Mitchell August 2010


Levi and I were asked to talk about this little booklet, Family


Guidebook. It’s pretty handy; I wished I’d had a copy when I first

joined the church 11 years ago. The Family Guidebook provides easy to

read and straight forward information on the family, Heavenly Fathers

purpose for the family, and concrete ways we can strengthen our

families. It could be a great tool for educating those investigating

the church, giving them specific ways in which the gospel can help

bring their families closer together. The booklet could also help

new members, who are learning so many new things about the

church, transition into their new roles within the gospel. It

functions as a great reminder to members as well, of the purpose of

the family and the things we can do to make our families eternal. It

is short and straightforward. In the first half of the booklet it

talks about the importance of family, how families are organized, and

it provides information about teaching the gospel in the home.


Importance of Family in Heavenly Fathers Plan


As an investigator one of the first things that attracted me to the

church was its focus on family. My first real up close encounter with

a Mormon family was my husband’s family, although Levi was inactive at

the time and remained so until about 5 years ago, his parents were

very devoted and faithful members of the Church. I was very surprised

at how their family interacted with one another. They actually liked

each other. They talked and no one shouted. There was no fighting or

bickering or mean spiritedness. They spend large amounts of time with

each other, playing games and just enjoying each others company. They

choose to spend time together and it wasn’t even a holiday. These were

almost alien things to me, although I came from an average family, we

did not have what this family had. I wanted that for the family I was

creating with Levi.


A long time ago in a heavenly plain, we all accepted the Plan of

Salvation. We all wanted to come to this earth and be born into a

family. Heavenly Father organized us into this basic unit of families

as a way to provide the ideal place for us to learn the gospel and to

grow in faith and understandings, so just as we arrived here born to a

family we would return to him with our family joined together. In the

Doctrine and Covenants it describes how families are essential. He

created the earth that we could gain physical bodies and form families

(see D&C 2:1–3). He established His Church to exalt families. He

provides temples so that families can be together forever (see D&C

138:47–48).”


The church places great importance on the sacredness of family. In

this past April’s General Conference 11 talks out of 16 had to do with

the family.


In his Conference talk Elder Russell M. Nelson tells us… "while the

family is under attack throughout the world, The Church of Jesus

Christ of Latter-day Saints proclaims, promotes, and protects the

truth that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal

destiny of His children. “The Family: A Proclamation to the World” and

our vast family history efforts are but two evidences of how this

Church brings hope and help to the sacred institution of the family.

We teach that God’s love for His children is infinite. Regardless of

race, nationality, or gender, He loves all of them.1 He has done so

from the beginning and will continue to do so. He invites all to gain

eternal exaltation for their family.”


FAMILY LIFE

Heavenly Father wants us to strive for an ideal family and an eternal

family here on earth. But our families are not perfect…not yet.

I saw this cute plaque once that said:

This is the future site of a perfect family.

Currently, however, it is under, mental, physical, and spiritual construction.

Inquires concerning inconveniences or apparent faults are to be directed to :

HEAVEN DEPARTMENT OF FINISHED WORKS

Thank you for your patience

Families are divinely designed as the basic social unit of life here

on earth. Families are complicated. Each family is unique, having it’s

own traditions and culture. Families provide a sort of ideal Perti

Dish in which we can grow and learn. Within a family you mix in a

myriad of personalities, preferences, and opinions, to which we add

extremes in experience, emotion, and situations-where we are tried and

tested and prepared to endure life in this world so we can enjoy

eternal and celestial life in the next.


When we accepted Heavenly Father’s plan, we knew it would not be easy

here. Just as when we become mothers and fathers, we know it will not

be a piece of cake. We are often overwhelmed by our family

responsibilities. However, we are not alone, and we do not have to do

it all alone.


Sister Tanner a former Young Women General President has said “I think

on the subject of rearing children that we will probably have people

in our audience who are going to start feeling bad about themselves. I

think the discrepancy between the ideal and the reality of everyday

life sometimes seems very large to us as mothers and fathers. But I

believe that being a mother and father is an eternal role, an eternal

calling, if you will, and that with that calling, as with any calling,

we are blessed with a mantel. We need that mantel, and we need that

spirit with us as we rear our children. In fact, I think like Elisha,

we need a double portion of that spirit as we rear our children. I

believe that we’re blessed with that. These are Heavenly Father’s

children, not just ours. They are His spirit children, and He will

bless us with a double portion of that spirit.”


Following President McKay’s well-known statement “No other success can

compensate for failure in the home,” he went on to say: “The poorest

shack in which love prevails over a united family is of greater value

to God and future humanity than any other riches. In such a home God

can work miracles and will work miracles.” (In Conference Report, Apr.

1964, p. 5.)Rex D. Pinegar, “‘Home First’,” Ensign, May 1990, 9)


It is vitally important that we allow God to work within our homes.

That we invite him there regularly and that we call upon him to help

us in our weakness. Just as it says in Philipians 1:6 …it is important

that we be confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a

good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ. I

would like to add that the work God has begun in your families he will

continue to do, you are not alone in your efforts and you can be

confident he will bless you as you strive to create an eternal family.


TEACHING THE GOSPEL IN OUR HOMES


There is one single very specific way that we can create the ideal and

eternal family Heavenly Father has intended us all to have and will

help us to achieve.


….We must teach the gospel within the walls of our own homes…


One of my favorite scriptures about teaching the gospel to my own

family is Deuteronomy 4:9- were it says Only take aheed to thyself,

and keep thy soul diligently, lest thou bforget the things which thine

eyes have seen, and lest they depart from thy heart all the days of

thy life: but cteach them thy dsons, and thy sons’ sons;

Part of the reason I like it is it says sons and I have four boys, so

I feel like God is talking just to me. And I know how true it can be

that if we do not share the gospel with others, especially those

closest to us, we will lose our own testimonies bit by bit.


The Family Guidebook provides a large section on how to go about

teaching the Gospel in the home. There are specific activities that

have been inspired and proven. We can strengthen our families through

Family Home Evening, Family Prayers, and Scripture Study. We can use

our time with our families to teach and guide them…though the paying

of tithing, during mealtimes, bedtime stories, while working together,

holding family council, interviews, and other wholesome family

activities.


“We must take up our God given responsibility of teaching our own

children the gospel we believe in says Elder Neil L. Anderson in his

Conference address.

Elder Anderson goes on to say that…"if a child is not listening, don’t

despair. Time and truth are on your side. At the right moment, your

words will return as if from heaven itself. Your testimony will never

leave your children.

As you reverently speak about the Savior—in the car, on the bus, at

the dinner table, as you kneel in prayer, during scripture study, or

in late-night conversations—the Spirit of the Lord will accompany your

words.

As you do your best, the testimony of Jesus will gently distill upon

your children’s hearts. They will go to their Heavenly Father in

humble prayer and feel His influence through the power of the Holy

Ghost. A stronger personal faith in Jesus Christ will prepare them for

the challenges they will most surely face."


Family scripture time, Family prayers, and FHE are the most tried and

tested tools we can use to teach our families the gospel in our homes.



Family Scripture

Family Scripture time can be such a sacred time devoted to feeding his

sheep, with his word. There is no substitute for reading straight from

the actual scriptures. There is power there within those pages. If

your child can read, they should be reading the scriptures aloud with

the family. Sometimes our scripture reading is just so-so and just

part of the routine, and other times it is profound and inspiring.

In our own family every able reader takes turns reading 2 scriptures

till we are done with our passage for the day. Scripture reading does

not have to be dry and boring. Instead of reading through the so and

so, begat so and so, who begat… and so on for most of the chapter we

try to pick out specific stories in the scriptures to tell, just as

Christ taught in parables and tales it is often easiest to remember a

certain story then a specific verse. Sometimes we like to use

different voices for the characters if they speak. I often stop the

reading when an important principle is being learned by a character in

the scripture and we talk about it. We also rephrase the scriptures to

make them personal by adding in our own names in place of pronouns .

It is important for us to find ways to make to the scriptures

applicable and relatable in our families life during family scripture

readings.



Prayers


One of the sweetest parenting moments is teaching a small 2-3 year old

child to pray to our Heavenly father. Showing your small child how to

fold their arms, be very still, and talk to Heanvenly Father…as they

speak to him in their simple language. They thank him for their family

and for special blessings on their toys.

When Ian was 6 he shared with me one morning his simple testimony of

prayer. He had had a bad dream and was scared instead of waking us up,

he said a small prayer asking for comfort. Through his simple faith he

received the comfort he needed and was able to get back to sleep on

his own.



Family Home Evening

FHE was introduced to the church in 1915 by a statement from the First

Presidency. In it they gave this specific promise if we would hold FHE

within our homes.

“If the Saints obey this counsel, we promise that great blessings will

result. Love at home and obedience to parents will increase. Faith

will be developed in the hearts of the youth of Israel, and they will

gain power to combat the evil influences and temptations which beset

them.”


FHE is a great way to start traditions and create memories that last a

lifetime. You are setting aside just a few hours once a week just for

your family-to learn the gospel, to have fun and laugh and play, and

just be together building memories. As fun as it can be, sometimes it

can be a challenge to hold FHE, with busy schedules, bad attitudes,

and perhaps tired parents and whiny children.

In a recent church Worldwide Leadership Training Meeting: Building up

a Righteous Posterity

Sister Beck, Elder Oaks, Elder Holland, and Sister Lant had the

following banter:



I was raised in a big family. My parents had a lot of children. And

that means there were a lot of opinions and a lot of work to care for

this family. But they used the tool of family home evening to really

teach us. Every week we sang “Love at Home.” That was the opening

hymn. And I remember as a teenager thinking it was really tiresome to

sing that hymn every week.

Elder Oaks

Sometimes that hymn is sung through clenched teeth.

Elder Holland

And by assignment.

Sister Lant

Sometimes it’s the mother’s clenched teeth.

Sister Beck

It was more a belief than a practice. But every week, Dad would say,

“Now we’ll sing our opening hymn, ‘Love at Home.’ ” And when I was

about 14 or 15, in that age when you question everything, I asked my

father, “Why do we have to sing this hymn every week? There are a lot

of good hymns in the hymnbook we could sing.”

And he looked at me very sternly, and he said, “When you have learned

lesson 1, I will teach you lesson 2.” And I don’t know what lesson 2

was; we didn’t ever get there, but I have to say that after the

passage of many years, I look at my family, and we do love one

another. We did, somehow, over the years, learn to love each other

because that was lesson 1 my parents wanted to teach. They didn’t try

to cover everything. They knew if they started with that, it would

work.


I know that family home evening is an inspired program. At times we

may doubt it’s effectiveness as we do not see immediate changes in

attitudes. Satan does not want us holding FHE, he will try all in his

power to prevent you from holding regular FHE. That is why a dear

friend of mine uses an old Nike Motto to motivate her to keep plugging

along with the things of life in spite of all the challenges. I think it applies to the attitude we need to have with FHE as well.

“Just Do It”


In closing I would like to share a thought from an Ensign Article by

Barbara Thompson

“It is the responsibility and blessing of each of us to strengthen our

families and homes. Each of us is in a different family situation.

Some families have a mother and father with children at home. Some

couples no longer have children at home. Many members of the Church

are single, and some are single parents. Others are widows or widowers

living alone.

“No matter what our family looks like, each of us can work to

strengthen our own families or help in strengthening others.”


I bear my testimony that our Heavenly Father has organized us into

families so we can work together to meet the trials and challenges of

this life. Our families provide a safe haven and a support group. They

are our sanctuary and they are vital necessary to our salvation. If

we take the opportunity to do the small, and simple things outlined in

this booklet we will gain the reward of a righteous posterity, a

happier home life, and family we can and want to spend forever with. I

say these these things in the Name of Jesus Christ Amen